keb sorry: http://pastebin.com/q70x3a7q
my fault it was the router's firewall it seems
doesn't make sense though
[08:27:17] Your Relay is Online - Your relay is now online and available for Tor clients to use. You should see an increase in network traffic shown by the Bandwidth Graph within a few hours as more clients learn about your relay. Thank you for contributing to the Tor network!
still no mentioning of me on te relay list...